Packing Tips & Guides

Discover your personal style & free yourself from clutter.

A few years ago while living in a small Brooklyn apartment, I found myself standing in front of my very small, overflowing closet feeling 
completely overwhelmed. I was trying to pack for an upcoming trip and after hours of wasted time and failed outfit attempts, I felt helpless. In an effort to make sense of the madness, I scoured the internet for what to pack for a week in Paris. Each article and blog post I read left me feeling
more overwhelmed than the one before it, and I was about to give up and overpack, again, when I stumbled upon a neatly organized Parisian packing list that fit into a small carry-on.

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Each of the 10 or so items pictured were perf-ectly cohesive, classic and the effortless and chic outfits they created were almost too good to be true. I quickly clicked through and was presented with a new to me concept called the “5 Piece French Wardrobe.”

From there I discovered capsule wardrobes, The 10 Item Wardrobe, Project 333 and countless other minimal closet concepts.

Despite the different names, each of these approaches suggested that sartorial satisfaction stemmed from a less is more
approach to dressing, and that a few key pieces were all I needed to look & feel fantastic every day.

Was it really possible to look and feel my best without having an overflowing closet? Could I really be stylish and have enough to wear
with only a few pieces?

Everything in my experience (and our collective consumer culture) told me no, but each article and video that I consumed on the
subject suggested otherwise. So, I decided to give it a try and here I am, years later and finally happy with my closet and more in tune with my personal style that I ever thought was possible.

I know what I love to wear and what I don’t and I’ve slowly built the wardrobe I always dreamed of having. Here, and on my YouTube channel, I hope to share what I’ve learned with you so that you too can discover your personal style and finally free yourself from clutter. If you’re new here, I’ve linked some good places to start below including my own personal closet & style ethos, the 10 items I alway have in my closet, my wish list and how it keeps me from making impulse buys and a few of my favorite wish list outfit planning collages that I use to decide if an item will work with my existing wardrobe. You can also see ongoing updates, inspiration and outfit posts on my blog here.

 

My Closet At A Glance

Wardrobe Wish List

10 Items Always In My Closet

Wish List Outfit Planning

 

Classic, modern, relaxed elegance

 

Here, I've outlined the main colors, silhouettes and descriptive characteristics that I strive for in my wardrobe. In the last few years as I've really honed in on my personal style, I've found that keeping this focus at the heart of my purchases helps ensure that I make smart buys that I'll actually wear. By following these points and constantly reevaluating and adjusting them as I get older, I move etc, I've been able to slowly but surely build a closet that I truly love.

My hope is that seeing these points from my perspective, and then seeing them in action here and on my YouTube channel will help you do the same. At the end of the day, fashion should be fun and we should use it as a way to express ourselves. It should never be taken too seriously, but a little planning never hurt either, and I've found that a little work at the beginning makes the entire process a lot more enjoyable.

 

COLOR PALETTE

First up let's discuss color palette. As a lover of neutrals with pops of color here and there, I am the happiest when wearing simple shades all year. This streamlined color palette has worked so well for me as a base for brighter accessories, and I wear these shades all year.

Not only are they incredibly easy to mix and match (nearly every color can be worn together with very little thought), but they work for me and all four seasons. 

Now, because I do love color I'm always trying to add a few bolder pops here and there and at the moment I have about 4 that I gravitate towards. Each of these make more of a statement than my base colors but still feel like me when done in small doses and are typically red/burgundy, green and pink.

That said, I'm also usually the most comfortable when these colors appear in accessories rather than entire outfits - with a few exceptions of course. If you're having trouble narrowing in on a color palette that works for you, I go into a lot more detail in my eBook below.

CLASSIC, MODERN, ELEGANCE & RELAXED

One of the things that really helped me lock in my personal style was picking a few descriptive words that described my aesthetic. The first time I sat down to do this I had too many words and as a result, I had a difficult time coming up with a cohesive style message. As I've worked on refining my style over the years, and have really allowed myself to grow into who I'm most comfortable being, I've narrowed it down to 4 words - classic, modern, elegant and relaxed.

Though similar, each of these words touches on a different part of my personal style and ultimately my wardrobe, and are all critical to making me feel like me. To better understand these, let's break them down a bit further. 

CLASSIC: First up is classic. On the surface this word means exactly what it says - something that is simple and elegant and not greatly subject to changes in fashion. For me, this couldn't be more true. From fashion to makeup to home decor, I have always gravitated toward things that stand the test of time. I love the traditional and legacy of time tested pieces and have found that they are some of my favorite items to wear. I love feeling polished but understated and classics help me do that with very little effort.

MODERN: Next is a piece of the puzzle that's critical to ensuring that I feel updated and never stuffy. As much as I love classics, I've learned over the years that wearing too many of them together can make me feel like I’m wearing a costume. Without a few carefully selected modern touches my clothes wear me instead of the other way around so to combat this, I've learned that no outfit of mine is complete without a modern twist and I love pairing timeless classics with trendier items for a balance that feels 100% like me. 

ELEGANT: By definition, elegance is "pleasingly graceful and stylish in appearance or manner" and it's a piece of my fashion pie that I've grown to value over the years. After years of classic opera vocal lessons and ballet classes, I've learned that anything too trendy, too casual or too "cool" just doesn't work for me. We all know that our experiences shape who we are and for me, years of classical training (beginning when I was 10) have given me good posture, careful diction and thoughtful movements that feel out of place when paired with anything too grungy. Even though I love the look on others, it always feels out of place on me and instead, I'm much more comfortable in tailored, understated pieces that compliment my life's experiences rather than combat them.

RELAXED: Last but not least is arguably the most important for me. Relaxed, which I use interchangeably with comfortable, is an absolute must for me. In fact, nothing ruins a day or an outfit for me quicker than being uncomfortable. I despise having to readjust, fidget or suffer when it comes to fashion and feeling relaxed is key to making me feel great in my clothes. I've learned the hard way one too many times that anything too stuffy, formal or complicated just doesn't get worn so now I avoid these pieces and I'm much happier. 

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The 10 items that are always in my closet.

 

Now that I've shared the colors I gravitate towards, the general feeling I strive for and how these keep me focused on pieces I'll actually wear, let's touch on the 10 items that are always in my closet. For me, these pieces are the cornerstone of great dressing and help me put together countless outfits that always feel like me. For you, these key pieces may look exactly like mine and for others they may be completely different.

The key here is to learn what works for you and then wear those pieces with pride - even if it means that you wear the same "uniform" of a t-shirt and jeans almost every day. Also, these 10 pieces have worked beautifully for me and I've found that they are also relatively universal but the nuances between each of our own personal styles lie in the colors, cuts and silhouettes that we choose these pieces in. For example, I love a crisp white, collared button down but you may prefer a collarless pillowy white shirt. What's most important is that you select pieces that can serve as a base or blank canvas for your outfits, and always do so with your own unique personal style in mind.

 

 
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  1. White Shirt

  2. Black T-Shirt (Short Sleeve)

  3. White T-Shirt (Short Sleeve)

  4. Striped T-Shirt (Long Sleeve or 3/4 Sleeve)

  5. Black Pants

  6. Black Skirt

  7. Light Sweater

  8. Classic Jeans (mid or dark wash)

  9. Classic Blazer

  10. Black Dress (cap or short sleeves and knee length or longer is perfect for year-round wear)

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Wish List

 

In order to build a well rounded wardrobe, and avoid impulse purchases I like to keep a running wish list of pieces I think will compliment my closet and my personal style. These include short term purchases (require less saving and planning - things like t-shirts) and long term purchases (things that require a lot more planning and saving - sometimes even years of planning and saving). Here, I'm sharing the things I have on my list with you. I’ve broken them into the purchases I plan on making in the near future (tier 1) and those that are on my list for a later date (tier 2 or 3). I will continually update it as new things make their way onto my list and also if and when I decide that some things on this list won’t work after-all.

You can click on any of the images to be taken to their purchase page if you're interested. Also, at the bottom I've included anything from the wish list that I've purchased or have been gifted so that you can see how the items go from wish list to purchase, and are actually incorporated into my wardrobe. You should also note that some affiliate links have been used below. This means that if you choose to shop from one of my links, I may make a very small commission from your purchase. This support helps me continue to make content. That said, none of these links or items are sponsored but I am occasionally gifted things from this list. Sponsored posts will and gifted things will always be disclosed and you can read more about my personal approach to ethical blogging here. Thank you so much for your support!

 

 

TIER 1 - THE NEXT FEW MONTHS


TIER 2 - SOMETIME THIS YEAR / EARLY NEXT YEAR


TIER 3 - BEYOND THAT (NEXT YEAR +)


 

Purchased Wish List Items

 

Below, I’ve rounded up anything that was on my wish list and has been added to my closet with my own money. In other words, these are things I bought myself. Below this I’ve outlined the items I have been graciously gifted. You can also see how I style these things with my current wardrobe on my YouTube channel, here on my blog and over on my Instagram.

 

Gifted Wish List Items

 

Sometimes, I am very graciously gifted items from my wish list, but the vast majority is purchased by me. Below, I’ve outlined anything that has been gifted. To learn more about how I work with brands and occasionally accept gifted items, you can read my full disclosure here. You can also see how I style them with my current wardrobe on my YouTube channel, here on my blog and over on my Instagram.

 

 

Things That Have Been Removed From My Wish List & Why

 

One of the things I love the most about having a wish list is that it allows me to take my time before making a purchase and do a lot of research and outfit planning to ensure something will really work for my wardrobe before buying it. Through this research and planning, every now and then a wish list item will be removed when I decide that it actually won’t work for my wardrobe, lifestyle etc and below, I’ll list these items along with why they’ve been removed.

 
 

This beautiful, linen trench was sadly removed from my wish list after I purchased it and it was much too large. Even though it’s beautifully made and the neutral color I chose was perfect - not too warm or too cool - the fit was off for me and I was swimming in it. I’ve now moved this off my wish list but am always looking for a great trench.

I’ve had these beauties on my wish list for a long time now but have ultimately decided to take them off at this time. Even though I think they’re gorgeous and would be very versatile for my wardrobe, I don’t think suede is the best choice for my closet.

A similar story with these wide leg crops. They have been sold out on Everlane for ages so I tried a very similar pair at Madewell and they were much too wide for my frame. Instead, I picked up a pair of straight leg, white, cotton pants from Everlane that I love & give me the same effect.

I love ballet flats and still think these are gorgeous but I’ve decided to move them off my wish list for the time being because I’m content with my chanel ballet flats & may get another pair of those in a different color to round out my ballet flats.

Lace up ankle boots have been on my wish list for quite a while now and after doing tons of research and planning my current wardrobe and what I love to wear, I decided to pick up a pair with a shorter heel, rubber sole and more durable, classic silhouette. Who knew the shoe I was missing was one I never really considered until recently!

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Similar story with these suede ankle boots. After a lot of outfit planning and thinking, a pair of black almond toe ankle boots should be more than enough for my wardrobe. That coupled with the fact that I don’t know how much I’ll actually wear suede has caused me to push pause on these.

Wish List Outfit Planning

 

One of the ways I decide if a purchase is worthy of my money and a slot in my wardrobe is to see how it will work with my current wardrobe. I have worked so hard to get my closet to a place I love that I don’t let just anything in and this prep beforehand helps ensure I make an educated, well thought out purchase. Below, I’ve rounded up a few of my favorite wish list outfit planning collages. 

 
 
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WHAT I HAVE: Delicate Necklace / Signet ring / Delicate bracelet / Greenish Brown Cotton Sweater / Cap Toe Pumps / Vintage Gucci Bag
WHAT I’LL ADD: Beige Sunglasses / Light Cashmere Scarf / Wide Leg Crops / Long Gold Necklace / Classic Charm Bracelet

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WHAT I HAVE: Vintage Gucci Bag / Delicate Necklace / Signet ring / Delicate bracelet
WHAT I’LL ADD: Solid Mules / Handknitted Sweater / Wide Leg Crops / Beige Sunglasses

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WHAT I HAVE: Delicate Necklace / Signet ring / Delicate bracelet / Camel Coat / Black Cashmere Sweater / Black Ankle Boots / Skinny Jeans / Bold Gold Hoops
WHAT I’LL ADD: Beige Sunglasses / Classic Bucket Bag / Light Cashmere Scarf

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WHAT I HAVE: Delicate Necklace / Signet ring / Delicate bracelet / Grey Cashmere Sweater / Sabina Savage Scarf
WHAT I’LL ADD: Beige Sunglasses / Classic Bucket Bag / Light Cashmere Scarf / Wide Leg Crops / Suede Loafers / Modern Diamonds

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WHAT I HAVE: Delicate Necklace / Signet ring / Delicate bracelet / Sabina Savage Scarf / Cap Toe Pumps / Skinny Jeans / Bold Gold Hoops
WHAT I’LL ADD: Handknitted Sweater / Beige Sunglasses / Classic Bucket Bag

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WHAT I HAVE: Delicate Necklace / Signet ring / Delicate bracelet / Cap Toe Pumps / Vintage Gucci Bag
WHAT I’LL ADD: Beige Sunglasses / Light Cashmere Scarf / Wide Leg Crops / Long Gold Necklace / Classic Charm Bracelet / Silk Shirt

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WHAT I HAVE: Delicate Necklace / Signet ring / Delicate bracelet / Black Wool Coat / Black Cashmere Sweater / Black Ankle Boots / Bold Gold Hoops
WHAT I’LL ADD: Beige Sunglasses / Classic Bucket Bag / Light Cashmere Scarf / Wide Leg Crops

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WHAT I HAVE: Camel Coat / Brown Ankle Boots (old from Cole Haan) / Vintage Gucci Bag / Delicate Necklace / Signet ring / Delicate bracelet
WHAT I’LL ADD: Sabina Savage Scarf / Handknitted Sweater / Wide Leg Crops / Beige Sunglasses

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WHAT I HAVE: Delicate Necklace / Signet ring / Delicate bracelet / Sabina Savage Scarf / Cap Toe Pumps
WHAT I’LL ADD: Handknitted Sweater / Wide Leg Crops / Beige Sunglasses / Classic Bucket Bag

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WHAT I HAVE: Delicate Necklace / Signet ring / Delicate bracelet / Sabina Savage Scarf / Brown Ankle Boots / Skinny Jeans / Camel Coat
WHAT I’LL ADD: Handknitted Sweater / Beige Sunglasses / Classic Bucket Bag / Modern Diamonds

Where I Like To Shop

Below, is a snapshot of where I like to shop for high quality items that stand the test of time. I’ve had very good luck with everything I’ve purchased from these retailers and I hope they help you as well.

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The Curated

This sustainable, slow fashion brand offers a carefully sourced collection of timeless high quality staples that come collectively together under one roof. Scandinavian based we are focused on sustainable luxury and minimal elegance for women. We work together with vertical mills to create luxury staples that are affordable. I have their classic camel coat & absolutely love it!

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eBay

Hands down one of my favorite ways to build a closet full of quality pieces is to buy second hand and vintage. eBay is one of my favorite retailers for this and over the years I’ve found a vintage Gucci bag, luxurious cashmere sweaters, incredible blazers, Ferragamo boots and more for a fraction of what they would have cost new.

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NAADAM

A new favorite of mine is Naadam. They make a fantastic $75 cashmere sweater that’s so soft and well made. I have their unisex sweater in orange and it still looks just as good as the day I bought it in fall 2018. I have heard that others have experienced pilling though, so like always do your own research before making a purchase.

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EVERLANE

I’ll never forget the day I discovered Everlane. I was living and working in NYC and perusing a blog for a possible collaboration with a client at the time (I was working in beauty PR). The blogger was wearing the prettiest silk blouse and when I clicked through to the source, I was shocked to see it only cost $100! A few minutes later, I learned about Everlane and hooked. They’re still one of my favorite retailers for affordable cashmere & classic basics that last.

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GRANA

Much like Everlane, Grana is disrupting the traditional retail space with transparency. I personally have and love their cashmere, silk and cotton t-shirts. They’re also a good option for petites because they run slightly smaller than Everlane.

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RUFFS SIGNET RINGS

As I’ve slowly grown my fine jewelry collection, I’ve placed a special importance on customizable pieces and a signet is one of them. Last year I was so lucky to work with them to bring my long time signet ring dreams to life and I shared my entire experience on my blog. In short though, this lovely family run business are true masters at their craft & if you’re looking for a custom signet or plain stone ring, you can’t go wrong.

 

Some More Of My Favorite Retailers

Net-a-Porter
Luxury Perfect For Gift Giving
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Nisolo
Ethically Handmade Shoes
shop here

Vestiaire Collective
Pre-Loved Luxury
shop here

Reformation
Great Basics & Romantic Pieces
shop here

Marguax
Gorgeous, Classic Shoes
shop here

Pamela Card
Gorgeous Handmade Jewelry
shop here

Bombas
Socks With A Cause
shop here

Mejuri
Beautiful Jewelry, Great Price
shop here

Stone & Strand
Modern Jewelry Shopping
shop here

 
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When it comes to building my wardrobe, I gravitate toward classic, well-made pieces that I can wear for years to come. I extend this philosophy to everything from my blazers and sweaters to my footwear and jewelry, and with this ethos in mind, I have been slowly building a collection of classic, beautifully made, jewelry that I can wear and love for years to come. My newest jewelry addition is a signet ring and after years of searching I've finally found the perfect piece and enclosed here I'm sharing everything you need to know about choosing your own signet. This information and advise is as a result of my own extensive research and plenty of expertise from the incredibly knowledgable team at Ruff's Signet Rings which has been crafting these lovely pieces since 1904. 

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